Have you tried dating through friends of friends? I'm sure your friends have single girlfriends. Or the girlfriends of their girls or wives. Dating couples relieves stress.  

Yes, it is much easier for a guy to meet a girl somewhere in a bar or at a party. But when it comes to finding same-sex love, for example, when a girl is looking for a girl, then such an acquaintance is definitely best made on a special dating site lesbiemates.com. I know that my lesbian girlfriend went through quite a few dating sites and only here she feels at ease, because there are a lot of like-minded people.