Let’s be real — figuring out your sexuality isn’t exactly something they teach you in school. I spent way too much time googling random stuff at 2 AM and ending up more confused than I started. That’s why I was genuinely surprised when I stumbled on this site: https://spectrum-id.com/sexuality-tests/.

Unlike those joke quizzes that tell you you're "80% straight but with a twist," this one actually has proper, detailed tests that are thoughtful and make you reflect a bit. You can take quizzes on different types of sexuality — bi, gay, pan, ace, and more — and they’re not just about labeling you, they help you think about how you feel and what fits your experience best.

What I really liked is that it’s super chill. No pressure. No weird jargon. Just straight-up questions and clear results. And if you’re curious about what the different types even mean, there are easy-to-read pages for each one, which are honestly great if you're just starting to question stuff.

Also, huge bonus: the site has tons of helpful info for teens. Whether you're already questioning or just curious, it’s a great place to start figuring things out without feeling judged.

Seriously, if you're staring at your ceiling at night wondering “what the heck am I?”, go try one of the tests. It helped me a lot more than I thought it would — and hey, at least it’s better than doom-scrolling Twitter again. ????